Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Waiting...

Has anyone shared this experience? This is an example of the blessing and curse of working with students. It all starts with an email. "Can you please help me?" The response is quick and optimistic. "I'd be happy to. Here's what you can do." Weeks may pass and then another, more desperate plea. "Do you remember me? I need to have these hours done in two weeks!"

With patience and promise, again, I ask that they call me as soon as possible so that we can work out the details. After another few days, at least, I will receive another similar email with an apology for not calling, but letting me know they still are need of hours. If they have given me their number, all this time would also be spent trying to reach them via cell or text. When I finally do get them into a program, their energy and enthusiasm are unparalleled. Clients can be seen smiling and meaning is manifested. As one manager and I remarked, "they are great, when they are here."

After months and months of back and forth, she came. This student is a state amongst herself. Showing up about an hour late, I brought her straight to the activity and helped her get started. The clients were full of stories and questions, to which she engaged with them extensively and intensively throughout the day. Once I even saw her cry. Listening and learning she began posing her own questions and laughing with an ease that I was very happy to experience. I believe that she truly made a difference to all those she helped. Everyone enjoyed themselves, including our student.

I would walk in the door and hear, "when is she coming back?" As her hours were completed, time will tell if she will keep her promise of returning. As of now, I am waiting...

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